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Your deadbeat grandpa crashes the christening. What could go wrong? Everything.
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La différence, c'est que c'est pas pareil (2009)

Awkward family reunionCringe comedyFrench dysfunction

Overview

ComedyDrama

After several years in the United States, Sylvain heads back to France to attend his grandson’s christening. He wastes no time trying to catch up with his ex-wife and their children, but not everyone is pleased by his unexpected return...

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Standout Aspects

Acting

Berléand's pathetic charm makes you root against your better judgment.

Writing

Dialogue so authentically uncomfortable you'll check if it's improvised.

Best for:Streaming: Late-night indie discovery when you crave European family chaos.·Solo: Watch alone to absorb secondhand embarrassment in peace.
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Director

Pascal Laëthier

ReleasedMay 20, 2009
Runtime1h 25m
StatusReleased

Vibe

Pacesteady
Intensitymedium
Tonemixed
Feelmedium
Budget$2.8M
Banana Films
Tarantula

Top Cast

François Berléand

François Berléand

Sylvain

Clémentine Célarié

Clémentine Célarié

Anne

Audrey Dana

Audrey Dana

Agnès

Alexandra Ansidei

Alexandra Ansidei

Lise

Atmen Kelif

Atmen Kelif

Paul

Claire Nebout

Claire Nebout

Diane

Roger Dumas

Roger Dumas

Le grand-père

Karina Testa

Karina Testa

Véronique

Éric Savin

Éric Savin

Pierre

Gilles Cohen

Gilles Cohen

Georges

Etienne Chicot

Etienne Chicot

Christian

Gilles Soeder

Gilles Soeder

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Deep Dive

Trivia, insights & behind the scenes

Trivia

Pascal Laëthier's directorial debut after years as a screenwriter; he specifically wrote the role for Berléand after seeing his capacity for 'delicious self-loathing'.

Cultural

The title's untranslatable French wordplay ('the difference is it's not the same') captures the film's central joke: Sylvain believes his return constitutes change, when repetition is all he offers.

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