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A mother buys her daughter contraceptives. What could possibly go wrong? EVERYTHING.
TMDB
33

My Dearest (1980)

French New Wave adjacentquietly devastatingintimate

Overview

ComedyDrama

Jeanne has been divorced for seven years now and her life is centered around Sarah, her fifteen year-old daughter. They appear to have a perfectly harmonious life together, a relationship based on deep mutual understanding and trust. So when Sarah needs a contraceptive, it's her mother who goes alone to the drugstore with her. However, under this idyllic surface there are tensions at work. Jeanne's on and off affair with Pierre does not save her from feeling lonely, and Sarah is bored by school. Both of them dream of an independent life, though neither will admit it.

Flag of BEBEFlag of FRFRFrench
Content warning
maternal sacrificeunspoken resentmentgenerational repetitionthe performance of closeness

Standout Aspects

Acting

Barrault's restrained devastation—smiling while dying inside.

Writing

Dubreuil's script trusts silence more than dialogue.

Best for:Solo: When you want to feel quietly wrecked alone.·Streaming: Perfect for rainy Sunday overthinking sessions.
Heads up:Sexual Content: Teen sexuality and contraception as central plot elements.
C

Director

Charlotte Dubreuil

ReleasedFeb 13, 1980
Runtime1h 27m
StatusReleased

Vibe

Paceslow
Intensitymedium
Tonedark
Feelheavy
Pierre Films
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Top Cast

Marie-Christine Barrault

Marie-Christine Barrault

Jeanne Rivière

Béatrice Bruno

Béatrice Bruno

Sarah Rivière

Françoise Lebrun

Françoise Lebrun

The woman doctor

Serge Bento

Serge Bento

The controller

Brigitte Defrance

Brigitte Defrance

Nurse

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Deep Dive

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Cultural

Released amid France's post-68 feminist reckoning, the film interrogates whether 'liberated' motherhood is just new prison bars. Dubreuil was among few women directors getting theatrical releases in 1980.

Insight

The recurring mirror shots aren't vanity—they're about women seeing themselves only through each other's reflections. When Sarah leaves, Jeanne literally loses her reflection.

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